If you want to accelerate how fast you get better, detach from how you’re perceived. That’s easy for me to say and hard for you to do. It’s emotional. I get it. But if you don’t — if you prioritize image over improvement — you’re already losing. It’s only a matter of when it comes crashing down on you.
A great brand happens as a consequence of living clear standards. A strong reputation grows by becoming the best at something. Some people won’t like whatever you choose. I promise. Maybe people close to you. Even people you thought were friends or teammates you could count on. You don’t need approval from those kind of people. Always treat people well, live your standards, and continue on your path.
If you want to become the best you, stop trying to look good for others.
Embrace the chase. Do the work.
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