Daily Discipline from BK

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Never trigger someone’s defensivness again!
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Brian Kight

Never trigger someone’s defensivness again!

While you cannot stop someone else from getting defensive, you can give them less to get defensive...

Your defensiveness is a real problem
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Brian Kight

Your defensiveness is a real problem

Tomorrow, I will give you insights into how to disarm and minimize people's defensiveness. You...

Why do people get defensive so fast?
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Brian Kight

Why do people get defensive so fast?

I find it sad and alarming how rarely people hear their thoughts, feelings, and needs accurately...

We suck at empathy and the reason is obvious.
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Brian Kight

We suck at empathy and the reason is obvious.

Another reason we resist giving empathy is because we rarely receive it. We sometimes withhold it...

Smash the Empathy Accelerator
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Brian Kight

Smash the Empathy Accelerator

Empathy is an unbelievably simple act. All it requires is full focus on the other person....

Disrupted but determined to succeed anyway.
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Brian Kight

Disrupted but determined to succeed anyway.

Your circumstances will not always work in your favor. They insert friction, barriers, and...

Stimulating lessons behind numbing fear.
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Brian Kight

Stimulating lessons behind numbing fear.

Fear tells us that pain is bad. It tells us to run away from pain. But pain tells us private...