Never trigger someone’s defensivness again!
While you cannot stop someone else from getting defensive, you can give them less to get defensive...
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Your defensiveness is a real problem
Tomorrow, I will give you insights into how to disarm and minimize people's defensiveness. You...
Why do people get defensive so fast?
I find it sad and alarming how rarely people hear their thoughts, feelings, and needs accurately...
Attack and eliminate this popular excuse
Every pursuit requires decisions. Every circumstance presents choices. It’s convenient to blame...
What to do with problems you can’t solve.
When we experience problems, we try to be problem-solvers. However, not every situation is...
Problems provide two good options
A friend of mine asked me yesterday, "What's the opposite of BCD? (Blaming, Complaining,...
Balance the scales of chaos
When the situation around you is beyond your control, double down on your discipline to stay in...