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Attack and eliminate this popular excuse
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Attack and eliminate this popular excuse

Every pursuit requires decisions. Every circumstance presents choices. It’s convenient to blame...

Say goodbye to drama-creators forever
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Say goodbye to drama-creators forever

I have plenty of time but refuse to use it on drama. I will not engage. I will not contribute. If...

Think twice before accusing people of excuses.
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Think twice before accusing people of excuses.

I rarely use the word “excuses” with people regarding their behavior because it immediately...

Why do adults blame and complain?
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Why do adults blame and complain?

There's an uncomfortable truth about BCD (blaming, complaining, defensiveness) that people are...

The #1 BCD excuse
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The #1 BCD excuse

A typical pattern emerges whenever I teach "No BCD" (No Blaming, Complaining, or Defensiveness)....

On Getting Defensive
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On Getting Defensive

It can be challenging to hear about things you're not doing well or that people want you to do...

Problems provide two good options
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Problems provide two good options

A friend of mine asked me yesterday, "What's the opposite of BCD? (Blaming, Complaining,...