Stop blaming, complaining, and getting defensive
2025-07-03 04:00:00
Why do we Blame, Complain, and get Defensive (BCD)?
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Accelerate to solutions, don’t delay them.
2024-05-07 04:00:00
Have you noticed that the people who justify complaining are never the people who solve big...
Attack and eliminate this popular excuse
2023-08-10 04:00:00
Every pursuit requires decisions. Every circumstance presents choices. It’s convenient to blame...
Say goodbye to drama-creators forever
2023-05-11 04:00:00
I have plenty of time but refuse to use it on drama. I will not engage. I will not contribute. If...
Think twice before accusing people of excuses.
2023-04-06 05:00:00
I rarely use the word “excuses” with people regarding their behavior because it immediately...
Why do adults blame and complain?
2023-03-22 04:00:00
There's an uncomfortable truth about BCD (blaming, complaining, defensiveness) that people are...
The #1 BCD excuse
2023-03-21 04:00:00
A typical pattern emerges whenever I teach "No BCD" (No Blaming, Complaining, or Defensiveness)....
On Getting Defensive
2022-11-10 05:00:00
It can be challenging to hear about things you're not doing well or that people want you to do...
Problems provide two good options
2022-06-30 04:00:00
A friend of mine asked me yesterday, "What's the opposite of BCD? (Blaming, Complaining,...
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Open In Case of Irritation
2021-12-14 10:30:00
It’s not feeling irritation that’s a problem. Everyone gets irritated sometimes. Some get irritated...